There Ain’t Nothing Wrong With Breasts
Posted on 08 04, 2006 under Her by Noodad |
Dawn Olsen has published a good article at Blogcritics on the
controversial breastfeeding cover on BabyTalk magazine. Following is an
excerpt from her article with my comments following:
"In this country, we want our breasts to be large, full, and barely
covered by skin-tight Hooters' t-shirts."
NOODAD RESPONSE: Absolutely
"What we DON'T want,
apparently, is to see pictures of babies
doing what babies have done since the dawning of mankind: nursing at
the nipple of their mother. The outrage over a cover shot on BabyTalk magazine for an article on breastfeeding is hysterically ironic."
NOODAD RESPONSE: I have no complaints
For the affront, the magazine received anguished comments such as:
"I was SHOCKED to see a giant breast on the cover of your magazine."
"I immediately turned the magazine face down."
And, of course, the obvious, "Gross."
NOODAD RESPONSE: Breasts are beautiful. Breasts. Mmm Breasts.
This
article makes a good point to call out how tightwadded American women
are to breasts and breastfeeding. In my opinion, breastfeeding is a
beautiful thing. In my opinion anything remotely linked to breasts are
a beautiful thing.
In fact, i have been known to even get excited at a bucket of Colonel's Original recipe. Read the full article here .

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MY RESPONSE after 26 straight months as a nursing mom: We just don\'t see enough breastfeeding in our culture. That\'s why it looks weird. I thought it was totally weird until I became a nursing mother myself...because I\'d never seen a mom nursing.
Before I breastfed, I probably would have noticed the boob first in that picture. Now, though, I see the look of love and adoration and happiness in that baby\'s eyes. It is a beautiful picture. Makes me teary, actually.
MY SOMEWHAT MORE RADICAL RESPONSE:
If our society can just freakin\' relax enough to see the big picture, then breasts can be ALL of these things: sexy, nurturing, attractive, practical.
Sex, procreation, and nurturing offspring are all part of the sexual life of adults. It\'s all a big circle of life that we\'re privileged to participate in.
I\'m not saying it\'s exactly sexy to breastfeed a baby or child. Really, it\'s anything but. And, honestly, the first few months of breastfeeding can interfere with sex. Mom gets very possessive of those things because, during that time, they are serving a higher purpose. (And if you can find the energy for sex during those sleepless times, then I admire you. We didn\'t.)
I can tell you the hormones involved are all the same. And the rush of relaxation and nurturing love that come with the milk letdown is caused by the same hormonal release that happens with orgasm.
No, you DON\'T get orgasms from breastfeeding. You do get a similar feeling of warmth, love, and relaxation afterwards, though. It\'s a great stress reliever.
That\'s nature rewarding the mom for taking good care of the offspring. Baby\'s happy and fed and (often) asleep now. Mom\'s happy, more relaxed, and feeling more loving towards what can be a demanding, trying little person. And dads? You life is easier when your mom-baby pair are happy.
All because of those thingies that make our dresses and bikinis and shirts fit great, too. Cool, huh? I think so.
Sorry to wax on and on. Guess I\'m feeling philosophical about it this morning. But it would be great if people realized it\'s not a madonna-whore, nurturing OR sexy thing. It\'s the whole spectrum. And that\'s amazing.
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Sorry to rant on, but it\'s kind of a sore spot for me.
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